With the multitudes of pretty girls that you are surrounded with almost every day of your life, for sure there will be that one single girl with a pretty face and wonderful smile who stands out from the rest. Yes, I know, you want to get this single girl and claim her as yours. However, you are stumped as she seems to like certain types of men who do not in any way resemble you. Thus, you feel discouraged enough to try and find the secret of how to get a girl to like you. Well, good news for you as I have tips on how you can make her notice you and eventually like you.
Tip number one: Most girls are attracted to guys who have great personalities. This means that you have to have an edge over other men personality-wise when you want a girl to like you. Hence, you have to be a confident and self-assured go-getter who always aims for his targets. When you are a go-getter, you are the alpha male in the pack and you show your dominance by not being afraid to lead and to be visible. Confident men are considered exciting by the girls, while insecure guys are treated as boring.
Tip number two: When you want to get girls to notice you, you have to convey a stature of high value. This means that you have to convey authority and importance in the social circle. For this tip, you have to show the girls, or a particular girl, that you are a necessary part of the circle you move in. Thus, it would help your line of attack if you are sociable with the people inside the bar or club as this shows that other people treat you with respect. It would also help if the ladies see you chatting with the bartender as opposed to sitting by yourself sipping cold hard liquor. This will then give you the chance to talk to a girl and have her attention.
Tip number three: When you are trying to get a girl to like you, you have to have social proof. You can start by expanding your social network. Make friends with lots of people, guys and gals alike, so that you won’t seem so needy to the girl you have your eyes on. When she sees you having fun with your own circle of friends, she will see you as the cheerful and friendly person that you are: that’s the beauty of social proof. Also, it is necessary that you extend your social proof through popular social networks as “the girl” surely maintains a profile to check out her own friends, and friends of friends she might be interested in. No need in using pick up lines to catch her attention either.
Tip number four: In attempting to get a girl to like you, you have to act cool and composed, not needy and desperate. This is very important as you are sending the message that you are a guy who won’t be there forever. If the girl you like has the slightest feeling of liking you, then she might go out of her way to strike a conversation with you as she senses that you are off somewhere else and she might lose her chance of talking to you. This tactic is very effective as the girl feels like you are a challenge. So, you have to remember to be confident and self-assured to enhance the sense of high value that you have instilled in the girl’s mind.
In summary, when you want a girl to like you, you have to do several things. First, be confident and sure of yourself to convey authority. Second, send out the vibe that you have high value. Third, have social proof by having as many friends as you can. Fourth, be nonchalant and not too eager to get her. When you do all these things, you can be sure that you will be successful in getting any girl to like you.