How To Attract Asian Women
Hello, this is your wingman Dean C., the guy who literally “wrote the book” on how to pick up girls. I would like to share several quick tips to help you with meeting beautiful Asian women. The reality is that dating Asian women requires a specialized approach.
Now let’s get into it. First of all, it’s very important that you show cleanliness and good personal hygiene when you are around Asian ladies.
You can see how much value beautiful Asian women put on personal hygiene just by viewing the way they take care of their appearance. They won’t leave the house without carefully fixing their makeup and hair — even if they just need to go across the street to pick up something. (Unlike a lot of American women, who can simply throw on a baseball cap and pair of sweatpants.)
Secrets Of Dating Asian Women
So whenever you’re dating Asian women — or you want to try to pick up an Asian hottie — you absolutely must look clean, well-groomed and presentable. It’s always better for you to be slightly over-dressed, rather than under-dressed.
If you’re going out on a date with an Asian girl, this is definitely true. Always assume that she is going to arrive looking her very best. It’s going to be awkward and uncomfortable for her if she walks in wearing a classy cocktail dress, and you’re wearing ripped jeans and a tee-shirt. With these ladies, you must “dress to impress.”
Extra Rule: If you have been wearing facial hair, you should strongly consider getting rid of it. Women (and not just Asian girls) nearly always agree that men look best when they are clean-shaven. This is especially true with Asian women because the men of their culture almost never have facial hair, and their skin is very soft and sensitive. They don’t want to rub up against stubble. So if a beard, moustache or goattee has been part of your “look” for a while, go ahead and shave it off. Make a fresh start. Trust me, it’s going to feel good.
My next tip on dating Asian women: you’ve got to communicate to Asian girls that you are an organized guy who has his life in order. They don’t understand people who are constantly “soul searching” and trying to figure out what they want out of life. In their culture, the men work hard, and with a sense of purpose, and they are totally self-sufficient. If you’re sharing a messy apartment with a roommate, and you don’t appear to be making any forward progress with your life, it’s going to be very difficult for you to attract high-quality Asian women.
I’m not saying that you need to have some high-powered career, or pull down a huge salary. You just need to demonstrate to Asian women that you are organized and in control of your future. You can live in a small apartment and drive a second-hand car — just make sure they are very clean and well-maintained.
You should not be saddled with a lot of debt. And when you’re hanging out with Asian women, you should mention your plans for the future and ambitions. She will then imagine herself as part of your future.
Western girls will often feel attracted to guys who are slackers or “bad boys.” It’s possible for a guy to have no direction in life, but still pull Western women because he turns them on sexually. Asian women don’t fall for this. These types of men totally turn them off. They require a man to be stable and secure, because that’s the only way THEY will feel secure. Beautiful Asian girls are turned off by this type of guy. They want a man who is STABLE and can make them feel secure.
By radiating calmness, masculine confidence, and a sense that you are in firm control of your present and future, you will become very attractive to Asian women. This is an excellent starting point. Next time I’m going to talk about some more specific approaches and skills for dating Asian women, including approach tactics. I’ll even give you some very helpful advice to help you meet gorgeous Asian women on the Internet (and how to blow away all the other guys who are competing for the hottest girls).
More Secrets Of Seducing Asian Women…
If you are not from Asia, beautiful Asian women may seem mysterious to you. Their ways, and their attitude towards dating and relationships, are quite distinct from European girls or girls from other parts of the world. And then there is a rich sense of cultural heritage that many Asian women of all ages have, which further differentiates them from all other women. Personally, I think Asian women can be some of the most attractive of all Asian women, and I’ve dated quite a few — so I have some certain insights into succeeding with hot Asian women which I think you’ll find very helpful.
The first thing to keep in mind is that beautiful Asian women are used to guys taking them out on “traditional” dates and trying to impress them by spending money, and trying to talk about their own positive qualities in an attempt to impress her. The truth is, she has heard all of it before in a good many variations and versions. Keep in mind the saying “less is more.”. The less you obviously are trying to impress her, the more a girl (particularly an Asian girl) will be impressed. The key to this conversation is to ask thoughtful questions and get her to talk about herself. Downplay the amount of interest you show her. This frames you as a challenge — a guy who is NOT easily impressed — and Asian girls will find this intriguing and different.
The bottom line is, never try to date a beautiful Asian girl in the normal, predictable Western style. You’ll probably wind up spending a bunch of money taking her out to a restaurant, and at the end of the night you’ll get a handshake or an awkward kiss on the cheek — and she might never speak to you again.
This is what everyone else is doing and it comes with too much pressure, expectations and awkwardness. These is what every one else has been doing with her. Instead, you should set up a first date that is simpler, cheaper and less predictable. Meet up with her for drinks, or a cup of coffee. Don’t frame it as a big, important “date” — make it seem more like a casual get-together. This way, the date won’t be burdened with expectations. You’ll act more relaxed, and she will loosen up and enjoy the conversation more.
All the other guys attempt to get these beautiful Asian girls out on dates and impress them by talking about themselves and spending money. In reality, she has heard it all before in many variations and versions. Less is more in this type of situation. The less you try to impress her, the more the Asian girl is impressed. Instead of talking about yourself, ask thoughtful questions and be an attentive listener. All you need is a small degree of interest. This throws her off guard as you are different and challenging, and hot Asian girls like you challenging. Be a little bit naughty and don’t always say the expected things. Throw in unexpected and mischievous remarks to leave her wondering if you just said that. Don’t ever give her the sense that you’re blown away by her looks. Playful and flirty statements and actions leave them wondering more about the kind of guy you are. Being a little bit of a “bad boy” can go far with sexy Asian girls.
Hot Asian girls get a lot of admirers and so you have to be different to leave an impression. Most of them would want to give you little test to see how firm you are. This is why you shouldn’t agree with everything she says. Sometimes you can playfully yet firmly resist or refuse her.
Believe it or not, an Asian girl would rate you more if she discovers you are admired by other Asian women. So don’t spend all your time with one. Widen out and let them know you are trying to decide and have a lot of admirers. You will surprised with the results.
The next thing to understand is that most Asian women are family bound. Start spending time around Asian girls, and you will realize how strong their family bonds are. So get to know more about her family. Have an interest in her family, make a very good impression on all of them, and it will unquestionably boost your chances of success.
Honesty is also a quality that is highly regarded in Asian societies and it’s important if you want to get the girl — and keep her. Men of honor never abandon their responsibilities or break their commitments. Prove yourself as a man of honor and strong character — but with a playful “bad boy” edge — and you will be quite attractive to sexy Asian girls.