Strategies on How to Talk to a Girl
Knowing how to talk to a girl makes things easier for a man. You’ll find it easier to invite her on a date and get into her pants in the process. Have you ever asked yourself how some guys do it? You ever thought that maybe they were just born into it? Maybe. But the point is, you can always learn these skills too. I’ll share with you what I’ve learned over the years:
How to Talk to a Girl
How to Talk to a Girl Tip #1: Stay Away From Pick Up Lines
Sadly, pick up lines don’t work on girls anymore. They’re unoriginal because they’ve been used and recycled by so many guys already. Girls would think you only talked to them because you want to get into their pants. She would think you only want to get into her pants. So you have to be ready because you’ll get rejected.
How to Talk to a Girl Tip #2: Don’t Apologize Because You Approached Her
It’s understandable that you want her to think you’re not rude. But this is also one way of showing how you lack self-confidence. High status men don’t apologize for talking to a girl. These men know their worth and because of that, people also react according to how they present themselves. So other girls will look up to you, you don’t surrender your authority but you don’t force it on them either. It’s just a matter of changing how you look at yourself. You just have to believe that you’re fun and interesting and start a convo with her.
How to Talk to a Girl Tip #3: Conversation Openers
Don’t Ask Close-Ended Questions. These are questions that can be answered by a Yes or a No. These are questions that don’t allow girls to share or express her thoughts more. However, some of these questions can be changed to make them an open-ended questions.
Use Neutral Openers. These questions are the complete opposite of close-ended questions. With neutral openers, you give out a reason why you talked to her, not apologies. You don’t only have a good reason to talk to her, you don’t have to apologize for anything. At the same time, the reason also eliminates doubt that you only want to get into her pants. Here is one good example:
“Hey, you’d probably know the answer to this—let me ask you because my friend Jen is coming to town next week and she’s in charge of her best friend’s bachelorette party. She needs to know a really fun place for them to have a girl’s night out. If you were in charge of the party, where would you bring everyone?”
Knowing how to talk to a girl demands skill and knowledge. I can supply you the information to improve your knowledge in this department. As for skill, you need to practice what you’ve learned to girls you meet that you find interesting. Try it with your female friends. These are just some basic tactics on how to talk to a girl you like.
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