What should I say to this girl….sorry for the length?
Ok…the girl I’m talking about is my best friend’s cousin. She’s 14 now and me and my friend are 17. She’s really close to my friend…practically like brother and sister. In fact, she’s always at his house whenever I go to visit. I’ve known her since I was 11 so I’m good friends with her, but I never thought about her sexually or anything.
Anyway I was over my friend’s house like two weeks ago cuz he invited me to her birthday party. I noticed that she was staring at me a lot, but I didn’t think much about it. Later on when we went to Six Flags she kept complaining about how the heat was making her boobs sweaty and kept touching and adjusting them whenever I stood next to her. I just tried to look the other way but she caught me looking once and gave me a look that said *perv*
She had invited two of her friends and they kept whispering something to each other and giggling. As we were leaving the park (and I swear that I am not lying) she ran and smacked me on the butt!!! My friend was right next to me when it happened and all he said was I had to get her back by smacking her on the butt. I didn’t do it off course…although I admit I wanted to.
When we got back to my friends house I tried to stay away from her cuz kinda felt awkward about what happened earlier. I was upstairs alone because my friend went downstairs to get us drinks, when all of a sudden she just burst into the room saying “you don’t know what you want” and yelling about how I was so stupid for not noticing her “signs”. She left and I was just sitting there thinking wtf was that about?
I told my friend what happened and he said he already knew she liked me. Idk how she got my number but later that night she texted me to sneak downstairs so she could talk to me. I went thinking that I could straighten things out, but before I could even say anything she and her friends harassing me about whether or not I thought she was hot.
I decided to just go back upstairs, but before I could leave she got in front of me and said “is this what u wanna see” and she lifted up her shirt (she was wearing a bra btw)….but still I got a ***** T_T. I got out of the room ASAP. For the entire night I was thinking about how dirty I was for getting turned on by a 14 yr old. I left the next morning so I didn’t have anymore run-ins with her.
I’m just really confused because I realized how much I “liked” her after that night <probably just lust tho. I thought I could just forget about it after a while but I’ve been thinking about what happened nonstop cuz I know she’s probably gonna be there the next time I visit my friend. To make things worse she still has my number and she’s been texting me stuff like “u should come back soon…i’m really wet“. WTF!?!? I told her that I need to talk to her alone the next time I see her…but I think she misunderstood what I meant.
I don’t know what to do. I know she’s gonna do something else the next time I visit and I’m not sure how long I’m gonna be able to say no to her. I know she’s a virgin…and so am I, but I don’t want to hurt her. I told my friend and he actually told me to go for it. I would go for it but something in the back of my mind is telling me not to do it. I don’t know what to do. I mean, I’m 17 and she’s only 14 *that’s gotta be child molester territory right? What would you guys do? Should I go for it or practice ultimate restraint???
You sound like a smart boy. My personal opinion? Follow that voice in the back of your head!! She is waaaay tooo young to be talking and actin like that. I lost my virginity at the age of 17 to someone who was a yr older than me. Please for the love of god dont loose your v card to some little girl. Loose it to someone u ACTUALLY like not bc u think u like them bc they showed you some boobies and slutty attention.
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